Deliberate creators often forget a pretty important part of the manifesting process.

We forget to ASK!

At least that is my experience. Both from myself and from others.

But why is it important to ask?

Because we must ask for what we want, in order to get it!

Asking is the first step in the three step manifesting process described by Abraham Hicks:

• Step 1: you ask
• Step 2: it is given
• Step 3: you allow

If you don’t ask, you may not get what you want!

Whereas, once we know what we want and ask for it, we can also DECIDE to go for it; deciding is a pretty strong way of asking, so it helps us manifest faster (because it’s easier for the Universe to hear us when we decide something )

And once we’ve decided what we want, it’s easier for us to EXPECT it; expecting is a very strong way of allowing (step 3 in the process mentioned above), so it helps us manifest faster!

So ASKING is very important, if we want to use our power as deliberate creators! 

When I first started deliberately practicing the principles of the law of attraction, I heard over and over again that it was important to ask for what I wanted. And that it would be a very good idea to write a list of all my desires.

Unfortunately, my list of desires turned out extremely short – I simply had no idea what I wanted!

As it turned out, I was totally out of practice and had to train my “desire muscle” again

However, there is a way to overcome this right away.

How to find out what you want, when you don’t know what you want

Make a list of your “don’t wants” and of what you’re sick and tired of having in your life or of missing in your life.

For each entry on your don’t want list, ask yourself what you do want instead, and write down the answers on another piece of paper.

And voila! – now you have a list of your desires

“should I be realistic in my asking?” is a question I often hear from my coaching clients, when we talk about their desires.

Actually, they often put it a bit differently, as in:

“But I should also be realistic, right?”

And my answer always is this:

“No, you should not be realistic, not at all!” 

Even if that is what most of us were taught!!!

And I do admit that it is not always easy to not be realistic.

However, the only thing that happens, when you try to be realistic, is that you limit yourself, and I see no reason whatsoever to do that!

So I would recommend that you simply pretend that EVERYTHING is possible. There are no limitations at all; you get to pick and choose. How does your life look, if you dare dream big?

Pretty amazing, right? 

As deliberate creators we often talk about the importance of ASKING.

As in:

“I asked for more money and a week later I got an unexpected 1250 USD”.

But what does it mean to ask?

It means knowing what you want and expressing it in some way or other!

You can

• write it down
• say it out loud to yourself
• tell it to someone you like
• or you can simply think about it deliberately!

It’s not so important whether you call it

• launching desires
• setting goals
• creating a vision

it’s all asking!

The important thing is that you become aware of what you want and clearly express it somehow.

I also like to think of it this way:

When you’re asking, your’re sending instructions to the Universe that “this is what I want, bring me this!”

Here is what Abraham Hicks once said about ASKING:

Humans think they are asking with their words, or even with their action, and sometimes you are, but the Universe is not responding to your words or your action. The Universe is responding to your vibrational calling. 

Your current money situation is a direct reflection of your so-called default money vibe.

Your default money vibe is the result of the sum of your thoughts, habits, attention and feelings around money and money related situations.

In order to change your money situation and get a lasting result, you must change your default money vibe – it’s the only way!

To change your default money vibe you must change your thoughts, beliefs, expectations, habits and feelings around money and change what you give your attention to on a daily basis as regards money.

Which is A LOT!!! (And impossible to do in one fell swoop!)

Luckily, you don’t have to change ALL of it to get more money into your life.

As soon as you start changing some of your thoughts, habits, etc., some changes in your money situation will happen as well (but at first they may be so small that you don’t notice them!).

And of course, the more you change your thoughts, habits, etc, the more your money situation will change for the better.

Automatically!

It has to!

Because your current money situation is a direct reflection of your default money vibe!